I stop everything to make him his drink

A tribute to the legendary Trygve Berge ❤️

Welcome, Freethinker — take a deep breath.

“I’ll take an Old Fashioned, a Manhattan, a glass of Cab, and a Coors Light.”
“Check please.”
“Can you make this sweeter?”
“Do you have change for a twenty?”
“Can you make this less sweet?”
“I’d like an order of escargot and truffle fries.”
“What’s the happy hour special?”
“What kind of coffee drinks can you make?
“Can I have more water please?”

Oh, just a normal ski-season Friday happy hour in Breckenridge, Colorado — inside the warm and cozy, buzzing and jam-packed saloon at the Briar Rose Chophouse…

And I’m in the zone.

Octopus arms in full effect — Shaking cocktails with a smile, topping up waters, serving dinners, slinging drinks for the entire restaurant, tallying checks, constantly tidying up, but then… in the middle of the rush… everything stops.

Because he walks in.

In his mid-eighties, yet still full of life and charisma, he warms the already-steaming saloon with his classic smile and a wave.

I also stop everything to make him his drink:

Whiskey Ginger. Rocks glass. No garnish.

I leave the packed bar to deliver it to him personally with a fresh napkin, taking a few extra moments to say hello and grab a handshake from those rock-crushing paws.

Not just a Norwegian Olympic skier, one of the founders of Breckenridge ski resort, the creator of Ullr Fest, an all-around legend…

Trygve Berge was also my friend.

Over the past decade or so, and despite being fifty years apart, nearly to the day, we enjoyed each other’s company immensely.

We went for walks around town, and up and down his mountain.
We shared conversations over many cups of coffee, often with Dave Lipka, making it a trio.
And we slowed down, laughed, and enjoyed life.

Trygve, you taught me how to stop and smell the flowers, literally.
You taught me that growing old doesn’t mean growing up.
And you taught me the importance of friendship — at any age.

I appreciate all you’ve done for my favorite sport.
I appreciate all you’ve done for Breckenridge, Colorado - a place I love dearly.
I appreciate our friendship and all you’ve taught me.

And I appreciate you, Tryg.

SKÅL!

Trygve Berge
(April 13, 1932 - April 2, 2026)

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Until next time, Freethinkers… stay present, be pleasant, and have the best day of your life 🙏

Mike Messeroff
Founder of The Carpe Diem Company
Personal Freedom Coach & Creator of Self-Hospitality
Author of Dogs Get It: Advice I learned from my best friend